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About Helane Fronek

Over the past 28 years I have had a fascinating and fulfilling career in medicine, initially practicing as a general internist and then as a procedural specialist, caring for patients with vein disorders. As Assistant Clinical Professor of Medicine at UC- San Diego School of Medicine, I’m thrilled to be teaching medical students crucial communication skills along with many other aspects involved in the practice of medicine.

Don’t be lame

One moment, I was walking down the jetway in Chicago, lost in thought. The next moment, I was on the floor, sprawled on a rubber mat that was covering an irregular surface of the ramp. Unfortunately, the rubber mat had … Continue reading

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Focus on the spaces

Yesterday, my husband took a ski lesson.  A very experienced skier, he decided to work on some advanced skills.  After skiing over moguls (big bumps of snow that really test your courage and skill – one local magazine commented, “it’s … Continue reading

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Being Persona Non Grata

Last week, I was a patient.  I was brought to an exam room and interviewed by a friendly nurse with a great bedside manner.  She introduced herself, showed her human side, and then left me alone in the room, with … Continue reading

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It’s always a choice

People often remark about my grey hair.  Some of the comments are very funny.  A young man working at the 7/11 told me he liked my hair, adding, “yeah, I’m a Raiders’ fan.” (The Oakland Raiders’ team colors are silver … Continue reading

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Got community?

There I sat, waiting to have my blood drawn.  Sitting with me were a young boy with his mom, an elderly woman in a wheelchair accompanied by her daughter, a preteen girl sharing a seat with her mother, and many … Continue reading

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2014 – Make Way for the “Bad”

Last night I attended an annual holiday party, intent on being the best receiver I could be. (Please see my previous post!)  This party is one of those events where you see people you haven’t seen since last year’s party. … Continue reading

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Being the best receiver during this season of giving

The holiday season is here!  Lights are sparkling, people are partying, and stores are selling.  It can be so overwhelming!  Running from place to place, worrying about the perfect gift for each person on our list, and for some of … Continue reading

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Slow down for life’s subtle riches

It’s been shown that mindfulness training or exposure protects against burnout, diminishes the intensity of chronic pain and generally increases our happiness.  We introduced a mindfulness exercise to the 2nd year medical students this week in the hope of giving … Continue reading

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The Elephant in the Room – How to make friends with the monitor in your exam room

At a recent doctor’s appointment, I was ushered into the exam room by an assistant. She never introduced herself and spent our entire time together with her back to me, facing a computer screen. As you can imagine, the interaction … Continue reading

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Let’s Talk about Failure

Ugh…even the possibility of failing makes most of us cringe. We are supposed to be smart, fearless, skillful at EVERYTHING we do and many things we don’t do, visionary…the list goes on and on, doesn’t it? In other words, we … Continue reading

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